Make a Difference Today

-by Matt Leedham
Hi everyone.  Occasionally,Jaime and I reach out to our readers for help. And this is one of those times.  Icould really use your help, and so can some kids in Northern Virginia.  Please read below and be in touch if you can be of assistance!
The Short Version:
I need your help.  My wife works at an afterschoolprogram for disadvantaged youth and needs arts, sports, and academicsupplies.  Take a look at the list below and let me know if you haveanything lying around your house that you can contribute.  You are allawesome people and I am eternally grateful for whatever you can give! J

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The Long Version:
For those that don’t know, my wife has recently transitionedfull-time from being an entrepreneur  inthe unique field of multi-cultural marketing (for 8+ years!) to working withimmigrant youth.  This is her passion after dealing with the struggles ofassimilating to a new society when she was young.  Immigrant advocacy andeducation is now her focus and her first stop on this journey is running anafterschool program to better understand the needs and resources available tothis demographic.
Her program is called the Culmore Safe YouthProject (CSYP) and is run out of Alternative House, anon-profit that calls itself the “abused and homeless children’s refuge.”  Culmore is near Bailey’s Crossroads and is a predominantly Hispanicimmigrant community living in low-income apartment complexes.  Her “center,”if you can call it that, is single room about the size of a typical apartmentliving room (maybe 25’ x 25’).  She averages 22 kids per day in that smallspace and tries to provide a safe space for children while creating anatmosphere conducive to studying, physical activity, and socializing. It’s tough, but she’s really making a difference.
My wife is extraordinarily gifted in working with troubled,disadvantaged youth.  What she can’t do is provide all of these kids withthe tools and resources they need to learn and grow.  And so, it hasbecome my personal mission to raise money, awareness, and resources to supporther.  I believe this is my strength, and a way for me to contribute. In fact, I’m in the process of planning a fundraising event in February thatwill be A LOT of fun, and you will all be invited!
So, my “ask” of you is to review the wishlist below. Do you have any of these items?  Are any of these things collecting dustin your home?  What about your friends or family members?  Pleasetake a moment to review the list below and let me know what you might have thatis either not being used, or that you’d be willing to part with.
I’ve always believed in asking for help.  You justnever know who or how someone can help you until you ask.
Can you help?
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CSYP Wishlist

Arts & Crafts
  • Paint Sharpees & regular color Sharpees
  • Cool coloring project kits
  • Colored construction paper
  • Regular color marker set
  • Lego set
  • Miscellaneous arts & craft projects and supplies
  • Play Doe
  • Paint sets with brushes
  • Any other general art supplies

Books
  • 3-6th grad level reading books (fiction and non-fiction)
  • Educational books
  • Coloring books

Electronics
  • Computers w/ or w/out monitors (they do not needmonitors)
  • Just Dance Game 2nd or 3rd version (Wii)
  • Other Wii games
  • Computer games (strategy and leisure)
  • Boombox with CD player
  • Computer printer & extra ink cartridges
  • Ethernet cable splitter

DVDs
  • Educational age-appropriate documentaries
  • Discovery DVDs

Outdoor Equipment
  • Badminton racquets
  • Pogo sticks
  • Jump Ropes
  • Hoola hoops
  • Soccer balls
  • Footballs
  • Rubber balls for Dodge Ball

Gift Cards / Prizes
  • Foot Locker
  • Barnes & Noble
  • Target
  • iTunes

Games
  • Non-board games
  • Strategy games
  • One-player games
  • Group games

Activities
  • Movie Tickets
  • Amusement Park Tickets
  • Tickets to anything that would be appropriate for a fieldtrip

*Many people havealready told me that they don’t have any of these items, but would like tocontribute some money to buy these items for the program.  A number of us (mostly family and close friends)have decided to forgo Christmas gifts this year and pool our money together tosupport the program.  You are welcome tojoin us in donating to the pool.  I can’teven imagine the kind of academic/art supply shopping spree we’re going to goon after the holidays!  J


Asking for Help

- by Jaime Willis

You cannot do it by yourself.
No matter what goal you are trying to accomplish, I guarantee there will be a point that you need the assistance of someone else to get your goal done. The problem is that we are indoctrinated to believe that asking for help is a sign of weakness, when just the opposite is true. The most successful people I know are also the most likely to have a really strong network of support.
I mentor a couple of great students, one of whom just recently turned 19. As a young black male growing up in foster care in Washington D.C., Nick doesn’t have access to a strong, positive male role model. And while I have many talents, there is simply no way for me, as a woman, to provide Nick with that specific type of mentorship. Not to be deterred, however, I decided to create a book for him that included the collected wisdom of all the successful men I knew.
Last week, I put the call out to all the men in my life — friends, family, and coworkers. With only a few days to get the quotes in and format them, I wondered if I’d have enough responses to make this present work. Well, I should not have worried. The guys rose to the challenge spectacularly! In the end, I had almost 100 pages of material!
I hastily formatted, edited, and spellchecked the document, and gave it to Nick last night. He was incredibly happy with the gift and couldn’t wait to begin reading the book “made just for him.” This amazing gift to Nick would not have happened if I had been unwilling to ask for help.
Take a look at your goals and see if there is something you can ask for help on today!
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Updates:
GREAT NEWS! I have gotten a lot of interest regarding this post and have even been given the opportunity to pitch this to a major non-profit as a potential book deal. I’d love more at-risk youth to benefit from the collective wisdom of the older male generations. Sort of like an “Uncle in your Back Pocket” guide to life.
Can you help?
1) Guys, I would love your words of wisdom for young men in topics listed below. You can email me your words of wisdom here.
  • General Life Advice
  • Personal Vision
  • Work/Career
  • Money
  • Challenges
  • Attitude
  • Integrity
  • Education
  • Health
  • Faith
  • Love
  • Family/Friends
2) Spread the word! Can you repost this to your own facebook page, twitter, blog so we can get the wisdom of men far and wide.
Thanks a million! You all are amazing!